'Old or young, dad or mom, black, white, purple. I'll take anyone': Teenage orphan who has spent a lifetime in foster care stands up in church to ask if anyone will adopt him
· Davion Navar Henry Only told worshippers
at Florida's St. Mark Missionary Baptist Church that he would 'be really appreciative' of being adopted
· The 15-year-old found out in June that his
biological mother, who gave birth to him in prison, had passed away
· Davion has lost 40lb over the summer and been
working hard in school - achieving A grades in almost all of his subjects
· On his adoption profile, Davion writes that his
favorite school subject is science and that he wants to be a police officer
when he grows up
A 15-year-old orphan, who has been bounced around the foster
care system his entire life, stood in front of a church congregation last month
and made a simple plea - for someone to be his family.
Davion Navar Henry Only nervously
stood before worshippers at Florida's St. Mark Missionary Baptist Church
and said: 'My name is Davion and I've been in foster care since I was
born... I know God hasn't given up on me. So I'm not giving up either.
'I'll take anyone. Old or young, dad or mom, black, white,
purple. I don't care. And I would be really appreciative. The best I could be.'
Davion Navar Henry Only told worshippers at Florida's St. Mark
Missionary Baptist Church:
Davion Only, 15, gets some last-minute help with his tie from
his case worker Connie Going before nervously making his speech before the congregation
Davion spoke quietly in front of the full pews wearing an
over-sized, donated suit that had come from his latest foster home.
The boy was born while his mother was in jail and has spent his
entire childhood in countless foster homes.
It was his idea to approach the St Petersburg church to find his
own adoptive parents and take control of his future. In three years time when
he turns 18, he is aware that he will be on his own. Davion will turn 16 on
February 12 next year.
He told his caseworker Connie Going that he knows his adoptive
parents are out there somewhere.
In June, Davion had come to terms with the death of his mother
after he used his birth certificate to search for her for the first time.
He found her mugshot from her arrests for petty theft and
cocaine. And then he found her obituary.
La-Dwina Ilene 'Big Dust' McCloud had died aged 55 in
Clearwater, Florida just weeks before.
The 15-year-old has spent the past few years at Carlton
Manor residential group home in Eckerd, living with 12 other teenage boys, all
suffering their own problems.
Looking for a family: 15-year-old Davion spoke to the church
congregation about how badly he wanted a family to care about him
He longs to play football but has no one to take him to
practice; to be able to use the bathroom without someone unlocking a door. He
would like the light left on when he sleeps.
Davion's portrait is one of many in the Heart Gallery - an
organization which helps children in foster care find moms and dads.
Each child has a small profile telling prospective parents
something about who they are.
Each article begins with an ID number from the foster care
system and the words 'I am available'.
Davion, who is pictured smiling on the beach
and throwing a basketball in the air, writes that his favorite school subject
is science and that when he grows up he wants to be a police officer.
He likes to eat 'Chinese Food or Buffets' and enjoys football
and basketball along with video games, hand held games, cards and watching
Cartoon Network. When it comes to his friends, Davion looks for those who are
true to themselves and to him.
On his ideal family, the teenager says he doesn't care if the
people are rich or poor or what ethnic background they are from. He would like
a family 'who are nice, fun and that know how to cook!'
The 15-year-old also gives a short description of what he is
like for any family out there.
Davion writes that he is: 'Nice and fun and would be happy
to be adopted! Davion says the nicest thing he has ever done is a save a boy
from drowning.'
The teenager has had behavioral problems - struggling with his
own anger at the circumstances in which he finds himself.
Dealing with his mother's death has led Davion to believe that
he doesn't want to be angry anymore - he wants to discover a better life.
He has spent the summer studying hard in 10th grade - achieving
As in all but one subject - geometry. He has lost 40lb and tries to let go of
his anger.
Davion also has support from his mentor Richard Prince, 22. The
two got paired up through the One Church One Child program and usually go to a
park to play basketball or talk.
Floyd Watkins, program manager at Davion's group home,
told Naplesnews: ''He's come a long way. He's
starting to put himself out there, which is hard when you've been rejected so
many times.'
The newspaper reported that as of this week, two couples had
made inquiries about Davion but he is still in the foster care
system.
For more
information about the teenager or the other foster children in the area, call
Eckerd (866) 233-0790.
2 Esdras 2:20
Do right to the widow judge for the fatherless give to the poor defend the orphan clothe the naked.
Ecclesiasticus 4:10
Be as a father unto the fatherless and instead of an husband unto their mother so shalt thou be as the son of the most High and he shall love thee more than thy mother doth
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